Digital match-making services have done more than just change how we find our perfect squeeze; they're changing the fundamental nature of our social networks. According to a pair of researchers investigating online dating, the way we're looking for love and lust is connecting communities in completely novel ways, breaking down boundaries and possibly even making for stronger long-term relationships. It wasn't all that long ago that most relationships would begin with a smile and a handshake, rather than a click or a swipe. That began to change in the mids, when websites like Match. Today there's a wide variety of sites and apps to suit your tastes, lifestyle, sexuality, and budget, from Tinder and Bumble for a quick swipe to like, to OKCupid and eHarmony for those who want their wit to show with their words.
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I've always liked the idea of online dating. Maybe it's because of You've Got Mail which isn't that great but man, that was, like, the dream of the '90s or because I was obsessed with coding as a teen shut up, I was so cool, you guys or because I work too much or because I'm hardly ever at bars unless I'm performing and even then, when someone hits on me it's like throwing flirtation into the wind and hoping it lands somewhere near my brain. I don't pick up on it.