Spending long hours at the office secretly searching for the perfect OKCupid date? Here's an idea: Just look around you instead. PayScale, a career website, recently asked 42, people working a variety of jobs apparently not including adult film stars about their co-worker hookup history. And to say the least, the results were surprising. Okay, so sure, the buxom waitress and the grease-dappled mechanic are in there, but who knew database administrators spread so many more sheets than the ones they run on Excel? In fact, one in ten employees reported actually having sex while at the office in a survey last year.
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Of course, for others, the happy ending heh may not have been wedding bells Just be warned: Cheating is definitely a common thread here. Of course, before I was dumped, I did have an eensy-weensy bit of a crush on a guy I worked with. At the time, I was an intern at a fairly big company paid, full-time, but an intern nonetheless , and he was five years older with an actual career, albeit in a different department. So, about two weeks after my breakup, we went out for post-work drinks in a group, and toward the end when it was just the two of us, I basically told him point-blank that I thought we should hook up.
Hooking up with your coworker can end one of two ways: the hottest sex of your life, or with your boss walking in on you while you're bent over the sink with a guy, trying to explain that yes, those expense reports will be on his desk first thing tomorrow. Don't be that second person. We always flirted and there was serious sexual tension.
Subscriber Account active since. But before you venture into that territory, consider these 11 tips from Losee and a few other sources on how to manage hooking up with or dating someone in the office. People often confuse solidarity — say, against a mean boss — with something more. It's a lot like what happens to battle-scarred comrades in wartime, says Losee. Don't just talk about work together, and make sure you get out with people other than your colleagues.